Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstances, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgement, self-abuse and regret.
☆ What does it mean to me, "to do my best" ?
☆ Do I expect more of myself, or others?
☆ Are my expectations of myself reasonable and realistic?
☆ At what point are my expectations of myself unrealistic?
☆ Is it easier to forgive myself, or others, when expectations are not met?